<![CDATA[Our Husbands Let Us Speak]]>https://ourhusbandsletusspeak.substack.comhttps://substackcdn.com/image/fetch/$s_!kx0k!,w_256,c_limit,f_auto,q_auto:good,fl_progressive:steep/https%3A%2F%2Fsubstack-post-media.s3.amazonaws.com%2Fpublic%2Fimages%2F00760281-d480-46b8-a3f9-960106ef7ab3_1067x1067.pngOur Husbands Let Us Speakhttps://ourhusbandsletusspeak.substack.comSubstackTue, 07 Jul 2026 12:12:45 GMT<![CDATA[Daddy's Not in Charge- A World Without Patriarchy ]]>https://ourhusbandsletusspeak.substack.com/p/daddys-not-in-charge-a-world-withouthttps://ourhusbandsletusspeak.substack.com/p/daddys-not-in-charge-a-world-withoutSat, 20 Jun 2026 18:30:31 GMTWe’re back! This week, Annie takes us on a journey to learn about the history and origins of patriarchy, and asks the question- can a world without patriarchy really exist? We cover how white colonialism influenced patriarchy, why medieval peasant women didn’t even know they were lacking rights, and how one amazing Nigerian tribe fought back against British rule. Other topics include Annie’s vision trauma, and her anger at wealthy Canadian golf men.

]]><![CDATA[Hot Naked Chicks-The surprising legacy of Hugh Hefner]]>https://ourhusbandsletusspeak.substack.com/p/hot-naked-chicks-the-surprising-legacy-4f0https://ourhusbandsletusspeak.substack.com/p/hot-naked-chicks-the-surprising-legacy-4f0Sun, 07 Jun 2026 02:13:26 GMTThis week, Chloe leads us on a journey of learning about Playboy founder Hugh Hefner. Was he actually as bad as he first appears? Well, yes! But he was also a surprisingly staunch advocate of a number of social justice issues, including civil and gay rights.

Throughout this journey we will be taking minor detours to hear about Chloe’s champagne problems, Annie’s struggles with Chemistry, and a high school trend that never actually existed.

Sources:

  • Books:

  • Sexual Behavior of the Human Female, Alfred Kinsey.

]]><![CDATA[A Harlot but Never a Traitor- The Tragedy of Mata Hari]]>https://ourhusbandsletusspeak.substack.com/p/a-harlot-but-never-a-traitor-thehttps://ourhusbandsletusspeak.substack.com/p/a-harlot-but-never-a-traitor-theSat, 30 May 2026 21:07:38 GMTAnnie takes us through the tragic (yet very iconic) tale of Mata Hari, the woman falsely accused of espionage and treason against France during WWI and one of the most infamous victims of being “woman’d.” Because, as it turns out, a woman shaking ass can be responsible for the shortcomings of an entire nation. Also this week, Chloe and Annie exercise their superior intellect in finally figuring out the difference between the Dutch, Danish, and Norwegians.

Sources:

https://hazelstainer.wordpress.com/tag/vadim-maslov/

https://www.friesmuseum.nl/en/collection/icons/mata-hari

https://www.history.com/articles/the-exotic-dancer-who-became-wwis-most-notorious-spy

]]><![CDATA[Laughing at the Taliban's expense- a look at the oppression of women in Afghanistan]]>https://ourhusbandsletusspeak.substack.com/p/laughing-at-the-talibans-expensehttps://ourhusbandsletusspeak.substack.com/p/laughing-at-the-talibans-expenseSun, 24 May 2026 21:08:20 GMTThis week, the ladies take a look at a more serious topic. Chloe takes us through the history of the Taliban, their rise to power, and their repeated past and current attacks on women’s rights in Afghanistan. While this may not be our funniest episode ever, you can rest assured there are still a few laughs at the Taliban’s expense.

Sources:

https://history.state.gov/milestones/1977-1980/soviet-invasion-afghanistan

https://www.britannica.com/topic/Deoband-school

https://www.npr.org/2021/09/08/1034754547/taliban-ideology-roots-deobandi-islam-india

https://www.bbc.com/news/world-middle-east-16047709

https://worldpopulationreview.com/country-rankings/countries-where-burqa-is-mandatory

https://1997-2001.state.gov/global/human_rights/1996_hrp_report/afghanis.html

https://media.un.org/photo/en/photo-essays/unveiled-history-afghan-womens-rights

https://genderdata.worldbank.org/en/economies/afghanistan

https://www.cfr.org/backgrounders/taliban-afghanistan

https://rukhshana.com/en/i-cant-even-say-my-own-name-how-women-journalists-in-afghanistan-have-been-silenced/

https://iwpr.org/wp-content/uploads/2020/11/C392.pdf

For links to Afghani women-run journalism:

https://rsf.org/en/afghanistan-rsf-calls-continued-support-media-exile-essential-sources-information-face-censorship

]]><![CDATA[The untapped industry of offing your husband- the misogyny of men who kill their wives]]>https://ourhusbandsletusspeak.substack.com/p/the-untapped-industry-of-offing-yourhttps://ourhusbandsletusspeak.substack.com/p/the-untapped-industry-of-offing-yourSun, 17 May 2026 15:56:40 GMTThis week, join us for a discussion of intimate partner violence through the lens of country music that talks about- you guessed it- killing your spouse. Annie pulls a few iconic lyrics from both male and female country singers to look at the reasons men kill their wives and the very different reasons women kill their husbands. Digressions include recent trauma of the quail and marmot type.

Sources:

https://ourworldindata.org/data-insights/women-are-more-likely-to-be-victims-of-partner-homicide

https://ourworldindata.org/grapher/homicides-by-sex-of-the-victim?tab=stacked-discrete-bar&time=latest&country=~USA

https://bjs.ojp.gov/female-murder-victims-and-victim-offender-relationship-2021

https://evolutionlab.nipissingu.ca/wp-content/uploads/sites/68/2023/05/Violence-homicide-infidelity-2022.pdf

https://www.psychologytoday.com/us/blog/in-the-name-of-love/202603/why-some-men-kill-their-wives-in-the-name-of-love

https://www.aetv.com/articles/why-some-men-kill-their-families-scott-peterson-chris-watts-christian-longo

]]><![CDATA[Fellas, is it gay to prevent pregnancy? The struggle to market male birth control ]]>https://ourhusbandsletusspeak.substack.com/p/fellas-is-it-gay-to-prevent-pregnancyhttps://ourhusbandsletusspeak.substack.com/p/fellas-is-it-gay-to-prevent-pregnancyMon, 11 May 2026 01:25:07 GMTThe girls are back to drop another Hot New Bombshell into the villa. This week, you’ll get to learn all about male birth control- whether or not it’s even a possibility, what the men think about it, and how we can shift some responsibility off of women when it comes to pregnancy prevention. We’ll also teach you our signature cocktail recipes, and a DIY way to help support the pod. Thanks for listening everyone!

Sources:

]]><![CDATA[Men’s Rights Maxxing: Freeing the incels from themselves]]>https://ourhusbandsletusspeak.substack.com/p/mens-rights-maxxing-freeing-the-incelshttps://ourhusbandsletusspeak.substack.com/p/mens-rights-maxxing-freeing-the-incelsSat, 02 May 2026 21:50:54 GMTThis week, Annie does the hilarious and haunting work of surfing the annals of the Manosphere to take us inside the Incelosphere. Annie imparts on us knowledge of phrases such as “roping,” “looksmaxxing,” and “black pilling,” terms which are, shockingly, not just invented by teens. From the humble and not-so-bad beginnings of the men’s rights movement to the black-and-green text that adorns today’s Incel Wiki, join us while we take a peek inside the minds of the men who can’t get laid.

Sources

Books:

Rejection by Tony Tulathimutte

The Tragedy of Heterosexuality by Dr. Jane Ward

Men who Hate Women by Laura Bates

Weblinks:

https://www.unwomen.org/en/articles/explainer/what-is-the-manosphere-and-why-should-we-care

https://journals.sagepub.com/doi/10.1177/10608265251356284

https://ncfm.org/2009/01/news/issues/mens-reproductive-rights/

https://avoiceformen.com/objectives/

https://www.splcenter.org/resources/extremist-files/paul-elam/

https://avoiceformen.com/a-voice-for-men/an-open-response-to-troubled-men/

https://incels.wiki/w/Main_Page

https://incels.wiki/w/Manosphere

https://incels.wiki/w/Hypergamy

https://wiki4men.com/wiki/Family_court

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https://ncfm.org/2011/04/news/issues/fathers/

https://www.brandonbernsteinlaw.com/child-custody-statistics/

https://incels.wiki/w/Roping

https://wiki4men.com/wiki/Suicide

]]><![CDATA[Only Rich People Can be Skinny- How Ozempic Represents America's Failures]]>https://ourhusbandsletusspeak.substack.com/p/only-rich-people-can-be-skinny-howhttps://ourhusbandsletusspeak.substack.com/p/only-rich-people-can-be-skinny-howSat, 25 Apr 2026 20:04:28 GMTThis week, Chloe takes us on a beautiful and meandering adventure through the world of GLP-1s. We discuss how these medications are disproportionately prescribed and utilized by people with more financial means, how they are being marketed toward adolescents, and how we could do better as a society to increase overall health. Most importantly, we talk about Annie’s inflammatory Tik Tok career and misogynistic men on the internet.

Sources:

The science of GLP-1 drugs:

BMI and GLP drugs in adolescents

The GLP-1 craze:

]]><![CDATA[Witchcraft, Misogyny, and Feeding Oats to our Pet Penises]]>https://ourhusbandsletusspeak.substack.com/p/witchcraft-misogyny-and-feeding-oatshttps://ourhusbandsletusspeak.substack.com/p/witchcraft-misogyny-and-feeding-oatsSun, 19 Apr 2026 00:21:13 GMTThis week, Annie takes the gals on a tour of the history of Western witchcraft and Christianity’s (obviously) negative impact on how witches have been viewed for hundreds of years. Come along for a bit of Biblical scholarship worthy of JD Vance, some light etymology, and a discussion of why women were accused of feeding oats to stolen penises (really!).

Sources:

https://www.metmuseum.org/essays/mesopotamian-magic-in-the-first-millennium-bc

https://www.etymonline.com/word/witch

https://www.historyextra.com/period/medieval/a-brief-history-of-medieval-magic/

https://warwick.ac.uk/fac/cross_fac/iatl/research/reinvention/archive/volume6issue1/oleary/#notes

https://vocal.media/futurism/did-the-pope-support-malleus-maleficarum

https://medium.com/fourth-wave/witches-were-accused-of-keeping-disembodied-penises-as-pets-f715a5f5b3af

https://oercommons.org/courseware/lesson/87864/student/?section=3

https://www.openaccessgovernment.org/they-werent-witches-they-were-women-the-witch-hunts-and-their-repercussions/181902/

]]><![CDATA[Oops, all burps!]]>https://ourhusbandsletusspeak.substack.com/p/oops-all-burpshttps://ourhusbandsletusspeak.substack.com/p/oops-all-burpsSun, 12 Apr 2026 01:42:01 GMTThe ladies’ first ever all-BS episode! Bad audio, no sources, just vibes. Join in to hear some of qualms with men in day-to-day life. And, if you’re lucky, you may just get a shoutout! (Spoiler, it’s mostly just Philippe)

]]><![CDATA[Ripping Off Our Bodices ]]>https://ourhusbandsletusspeak.substack.com/p/ripping-off-our-bodiceshttps://ourhusbandsletusspeak.substack.com/p/ripping-off-our-bodicesWed, 08 Apr 2026 14:22:45 GMTCome quake and shake with two delicate, tiny, ample-breasted ladies as they discuss romance novels. This week you’ll get to learn about bodice rippers, how romance threatens the patriarchy, and why it’s not always as dumb of a genre as it seems.

Sources:

Evie Magazine
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]]><![CDATA[Desperately Grappling for Nuance]]>https://ourhusbandsletusspeak.substack.com/p/desperately-grappling-for-nuancehttps://ourhusbandsletusspeak.substack.com/p/desperately-grappling-for-nuanceSun, 29 Mar 2026 00:30:21 GMTDISCLAIMER! I was NOT drinking used bathtub water!!! It was clean water from the bathtub faucet!!!

This week, the gals take a break from the depravity of patriarchy to put on their tech bro glasses and discuss whether they’re really morally superior for refusing to use AI. (Spoiler, it’s nuanced).

Listen in and you’ll learn how much water AI really consumes, why Annie and Chloe are the original ChatGPT, and how many of the youth are falling in love with AI these days.

Sources:

https://www.ibm.com/think/topics/chatgpt

https://academics.waldenu.edu/artificial-intelligence/glossary

https://www.infobip.com/blog/large-language-models-vs-generative-ai#:~:text=Are%20all%20LLMS%20considered%20Gen,video%2C%20code%2C%20and%20more.

https://www.forbes.com/sites/bernardmarr/2024/04/22/navigating-the-generative-ai-divide-open-source-vs-closed-source-solutions/

https://www.cushmanwakefield.com/en/united-states/insights/data-center-development-cost-guide

https://www.technologyreview.com/2025/05/20/1116327/ai-energy-usage-climate-footprint-big-tech/?gad_source=1&gad_campaignid=20737314952&gbraid=0AAAAADgO_mjjT7-YlwfpXJR9orI0SO6WH&gclid=CjwKCAjwg_nNBhAGEiwAiYPYAyT8SapKQRVirqKs_zVMDjWlK_lpmr-smkyy5UKRWJP9x9nkCsGl3BoCLL0QAvD_BwE

https://epoch.ai/gradient-updates/how-much-energy-does-chatgpt-use

ai-data-centers-water

you-dont-actually-care-about-the

https://www.sciencedirect.com/science/article/pii/S2772985025000262#:~:text=A%20typical%20hyperscale%20data%20center,and%20track%20associated%20health%20effects.

url

https://www.evidencity.com/tracing-risk-in-silicon-supply-chains

https://arxiv.org/pdf/2506.08872

https://www.npr.org/2025/10/08/nx-s1-5561981/ai-students-schools-teachers

https://news.stanford.edu/stories/2026/03/ai-advice-sycophantic-models-research

https://www.ohchr.org/en/stories/2024/07/racism-and-ai-bias-past-leads-bias-future#:~:text=For%20example%2C%20in%20academic%20and,thus%20perpetuating%20exclusion%20and%20discrimination.

https://www.cedars-sinai.org/newsroom/cedars-sinai-study-shows-racial-bias-in-ai-generated-treatment-regimens-for-psychiatric-patients/#:~:text=07:00%20AM-,Cedars%2DSinai%20Study%20Shows%20Racial%20Bias%20in%20AI%2DGenerated%20Treatment,Image%20by%20Getty.

]]><![CDATA[Men Were Created to Open Jars, as Far as I Don't Know ]]>https://ourhusbandsletusspeak.substack.com/p/men-were-created-to-open-jars-ashttps://ourhusbandsletusspeak.substack.com/p/men-were-created-to-open-jars-asFri, 20 Mar 2026 14:01:41 GMTThe gals are back this week with another inflammatory topic- why the male sex is not as important as the female sex. They go into the history and science of why our patriarchal society is a construct, rather than a biological necessity. They also discuss the importance of men being able to open jars, make some more inappropriate JFK jokes, and discuss why Annie’s baby has been accused of being a neanderthal.

Sources:

]]><![CDATA[Watch us DESTROY an anti-feminist- NOT CLICKBAIT!!]]>https://ourhusbandsletusspeak.substack.com/p/watch-us-destroy-an-anti-feministhttps://ourhusbandsletusspeak.substack.com/p/watch-us-destroy-an-anti-feministFri, 13 Mar 2026 02:54:59 GMTThis week we dive into the deep, dark crevice that is anti-feminism, brought to you by the book “Occult Feminism” by Rachel Wilson. We sift through the heaps and mounds of the claims she makes, and discuss why all of them are just lies in a submissive little package.

Sources:

Chloe’s Section

]]><![CDATA[Doing a Mormon Mission in the Summer's Eve Aisle]]>https://ourhusbandsletusspeak.substack.com/p/doing-a-mormon-mission-in-the-summershttps://ourhusbandsletusspeak.substack.com/p/doing-a-mormon-mission-in-the-summersSat, 07 Mar 2026 05:41:40 GMTJoin the girls this week as they discuss a useless capitalist invention- feminine hygiene wash! They get into details on the history, the necessity, and the misogyny of these products. They also learn why you shouldn’t use your sister’s Lume deodorant, discover several interesting listings on Ebay, and wonder which came first- the lysol or the douche?

Sources:

https://lumedeodorant.com/blog/dark-history-feminine-hygiene?srsltid=AfmBOopypB7oS-Lg_YH3vcUQtRrq5DZLRHwJ8sJc76GCwAFlRORIYy0b

]]><![CDATA[Call me bimbo the way she tapping on my head]]>https://ourhusbandsletusspeak.substack.com/p/call-me-bimbo-the-way-she-tappinghttps://ourhusbandsletusspeak.substack.com/p/call-me-bimbo-the-way-she-tappingSat, 28 Feb 2026 21:17:57 GMTThis week features an intellectual discussion on why terms like “I’m just a girl” and “that’s a boy job” drop kick us straight back to the 1950s. And a wide variety of crude JFK memes, because nothing says feminism like JFK.

]]><![CDATA[Possessed by Dada Yaga ]]>https://ourhusbandsletusspeak.substack.com/p/possessed-by-dada-yagahttps://ourhusbandsletusspeak.substack.com/p/possessed-by-dada-yagaWed, 25 Feb 2026 00:54:46 GMTIn today’s episode the ladies get gabbin’ and yappin’ about a very scary topic- misogyny in horror films!! They cover a brief history of horror, and discuss the patriarchal ways that women have been portrayed in this genre. They also discover the true meaning of being possessed, talk about Dada Yaga (Hudson Williams), and a multitude of other beautiful and enticing ideas. Mwah!

Sources:

https://blogs.loc.gov/folklife/2021/10/la-llorona-an-introduction-to-the-weeping-woman/

https://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/Skin-walker

http://culturalkeys.cn/2021/10/30/scary-chinese-monsters/)

https://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/Horror_fiction#cite_note-16)

https://blogs.library.american.edu/mediaservices/2020/10/30/the-evolution-of-horror-films-a-look-a-horror-movies-from-the-19th-to-21st-century/

https://raindance.org/unveiling-the-essentials-of-horror-key-elements-and-their-cinematic-uses/

https://qualquant.org/wp-content/uploads/text/1990%20Cowan187-196.pdf

]]><![CDATA[Shut up and eat your NuGo Bar]]>https://ourhusbandsletusspeak.substack.com/p/shut-up-and-eat-your-nugo-barhttps://ourhusbandsletusspeak.substack.com/p/shut-up-and-eat-your-nugo-barSun, 22 Feb 2026 18:06:40 GMTThis episode we dive into the world of tofu and soy and answer a few all-important questions like: Is tofu really a Chinese conspiracy? Can soy turn you into a woman? And, most importantly, does hating tofu mean you hate women?

Sources:

  1. https://nihaoma-mandarin.com/culture/the-rich-history-of-tofu-in-china-from-ancient-origins-to-modern-delicacy/

  2. https://www.verywellfit.com/does-soy-milk-affect-estrogen-levels-4165181

  3. https://news.tulane.edu/pr/how-mere-12-americans-eat-half-nations-beef-creating-significant-health-and-environmental

  4. https://link.springer.com/article/10.1007/s11199-023-01346-0

  5. And, of course, thank you to everyone for answering my instagram poll. Keeping those anonymous, but here’s a cookie for you if you answered.

]]><![CDATA[I Actually Done a Formula Before ]]>https://ourhusbandsletusspeak.substack.com/p/i-actually-done-a-formula-beforehttps://ourhusbandsletusspeak.substack.com/p/i-actually-done-a-formula-beforeSun, 22 Feb 2026 04:49:59 GMTOur debut podcast episode! Today we sit down and discuss the misogynistic history behind the perception that scientists are smarter than literary experts. Come gab and giggle with us!

Sources:

  1. https://www.russellsage.org/sites/default/files/Chamberlain_Chap1_0.pdf

  2. https://guides.library.harvard.edu/c.php?g=405381&p=6465805

  3. https://www.russellsage.org/sites/default/files/Chamberlain_Chap1_0.pdf

    1. https://www.oberlin.edu/about-oberlin/oberlin-history

    2. https://www.theatlantic.com/magazine/archive/2019/06/who-is-shakespeare-emilia-bassano/588076/

  4. https://www.russellsage.org/sites/default/files/Chamberlain_Chap1_0.pdf

  5. https://www.nber.org/system/files/working_papers/w30987/w30987.pdf

  6. https://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/History_of_chemistry

  7. https://edpolicyinca.org/sites/default/files/2022-02/a_yee-feb1994.pdf

  8. https://www.amacad.org/publication/classics-cultural-studies

(https://www.russellsage.org/sites/default/files/Chamberlain_Chap1_0.pdf)

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